Was there a a book or something that Changed your way of thinking about that? Or was it just, just something that you developed over time with seeing how others had done things.
For the mindset again, I think this might be part of the culminate. Things I have I have a philosophy on education and learning for myself. I don't read a book to become so engrossed with it and the author and the teacher, whatever it is that's all I'm thinking about. And that's who I'm becoming, like that, person's the one and only thing that I can learn and do my philosophy is what if I just got one thing?
That I could implement today. So whether that's a book, a course, a workshop, an interaction, a meeting, whatever it is, what's my one takeaway that I could implement right away. So I think it's because I've, I read so much and do so much in a personal development and learning realm that all of these little, one pieces I've constructed.
My own little wobbly philosophy about how all this works. So I don't know that there was just one book or one thing. And I would just go back to say that there, I would say there's three things. That made a huge impact because it came down to self-confidence and believing in myself again. And that came from learning my type on the Enneagram, learning that as a number seven, I am an enthusiast.
I love ideas. I know what's motivating my behavior. I knew him pushing some of the negative emotions away. So now I know how to confront those and not be in a shame cycle. So that was huge. And then learning the habits and routines are everything. Hal Elrod, Brendon Burchard super helped me out with that.
And then the third thing I have to say, I'm going to give credit to Bernay brown on this because rising strong and there's one other book and it's just, I'm watching it, leave my brain as we speak, but really any of her books. Because I was going through what I was going through, where the world was crumbling and my heart was broken at the time.
I was going through that. Yup. And as a solopreneur, when you're going through a divorce, a breakup or grief of any kind, even if somebody were to die, your entire business, Is reliant on you. So you have to somehow pick up all these pieces. So her book I read right at the right time that gave me that confidence to get back on track.
Hal Elrod gave me the framework a reason to get up every morning and to do keep moving. And when I did that every day, doing what I said, I was going to do, having that internal integrity with myself, just built up and gave me the confidence to keep going, keep doing it.
